love has not left them yet...!!!

Yesterday, it was a bad day for one of my best friend. He had break off with his girlfriend. so sad, His girlfriend is now his Ex-Girlfriend...

the day before yesterday, we met, he was in anger.. wanted break off on the spot.. he was on the phone only... screaming out on phone..
but yestrday, he met me in the evening, he was looking sad.. thank god, i felt, he has some humanity yet.. i was blank.. no expressions...

he was just remembering the things, how he proposed her, how they spent 2 & half year with each other... how they enjoyed little little moments, shared happy and sad moments also...

he was just going on n going on.. n i cudnt stop him... rather i dint want to stop him... i just let him to cherish his old memories.. may be he would feel much better later on...

after sometime.. he just stopped... kept quiet.. i felt he is going to cry out now... even i wasnt prepared for that... but.. he spoken a sentense.. i was freezed to hear that.. confused reaction at a time...

"we were living like a brother n sister.."

it was shocking to me, he explained - whenever they used to go by auto, she used to keep her bag or anything in between them.. she even never held his hand, anywhere in public place or private place.. she loved him but kept an unwanted space in between them.. she never used to stand with him at public place, as someone may recognize them... & the worst part was, she never allowed touch him nor allowed to touch her... even not a single Kiss..!!!

i was still freezed.. he was just saying n saying...

i asked him, why dint he asked her as soon as he realized.. he answered that she might be confused or uncomfortable with him.. as time passes she would feel comfortableness with him so, he left that topic... & nor she spoken a word about this because she felt.. this is his generosity...!!

wow.. what a closed mind!!
somehow, i was shocked n speechless also.. i was just hearing that... & thinking deeply in mind.. why? why this??

again n again, i felt one thing that, if someone is in the relationship then, he or she must understand their partner first.. their mindset.. their wishes, their behaviour in general or in any other situation.. their likes-dislikes, thoughts, habits must mixed up with partners habit.. this is the first step of any relationship.. i guess...

it doesnt mean that someone has to examine their partner, or meet the real side of the partner.. it not possible in short period, but frequent meetings may come over this... afterall, we are thinking about the life partner.. we cant be so much careless on our part.. ultimately.. we have to suffer from that...

its like a life time commitment but not adjustment...

in this case, i felt a thing purposefully that.. both of them taken themselves for grated... n this is the worst situation.. n now it affected both of them.. their life...

mistake is done by both of them its not by a single one.. communication gap may be the another reason.. they were chatting on phone for 2 hrs, but never spoken upon some important issues like this... as soon as, one of them realized this thing, they should have spoken about that at the same time...
and if they would have communicated properly, and known each other properly, then this problem would not have been raised...!!

anyways, still i feel, they should get back with each other.. they are made for each other...
i dont know how.. but they should..! because this is just a misunderstanding...
i kno.. its not so simple..!!!

& they will one day...!!! because they have left themselves..
but their love has not left them yet...!!!